1 Peter 3:5

Tuesday, 12 November 2019

For in this manner, in former times, the holy women who trusted in God also adorned themselves, being submissive to their own husbands, 1 Peter 3:5

Peter has instructed women to not focus on the externals for their adornment, but on the inner beauty of the person. Now, he gives a firm and reliable reason for this through example. He begins with, “For in this manner.” In other words, in the manner in which I just told you to conduct yourselves, which is to “not let your adornment be merely outward—arranging the hair, wearing gold, or putting on fine apparel— rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious in the sight of God” (verses 3:3, 4).

It is this expectation that Peter likens to the women of “former times.” Peter is not going to arbitrarily pull out examples from his family or of some lore passed down by Jewish tradition. Rather, he will refer to a key example from Scripture, and have her stand as representative of “the holy women who trusted in God.”

In other words, there is a record in Scripture which is then used as an example for other women to emulate. As God saw it sufficient to include this example in Scripture, then it is obviously something that He finds noteworthy and deserving of emulation. Such women “adorned themselves” as Peter noted in the previous verses (cited above).

The word “adorned” is in the imperfect tense in the Greek. What this means is that it was their habitual and continuous way of conducting this aspect of their lives. In this, they weren’t fashioning themselves for all to see and lust after, but rather they remained “submissive to their own husbands.”

Remember, it is wives who Peter is addressing. If a woman is married, and yet she is purposefully dressing in a manner that is intended to attract the attention of other men, it means that she is not being submissive to her husband, but rather she is being solicitous of the attention of other men. It is a note to the world that she is not satisfied with him and she is seeking more from the men to whom she has no right to be with. She bears a resemblance not to the godly women of the past, but to the crafty harlot described in Proverbs 7 or to the ruthless and yet seductive Jezebel who knew how to coerce men through a painted face and flattery –

“Now when Jehu had come to Jezreel, Jezebel heard of it; and she put paint on her eyes and adorned her head, and looked through a window.” 2 Kings 9:30

Life application: Peter is not implying that a woman is to dress blandly or shun away from any of the external treatments. However, those things aren’t what she should be relying on to catch her husband’s attention. If she is, then sadness and dissatisfaction will result.

These things are temporary and fading, and people get old and wrinkly. The day is coming when the finery no longer works and the wrinkles are all that’s left. When that day arrives, then what is left but emptiness and loneliness? But when a woman adorns herself with her inner beauty, trusts in God, is gentle and respectful, and – yes – submissive to her husband, she has a firm and lasting foundation set for the love and approval of her husband.

Is being submissive meant to be degrading to a woman? Of course not! God made women the “weaker vessel,” and it is the man’s duty and responsibility to care for and protect her. He is to honor his wife as his lifelong partner and to look first and foremost at her true inner beauty.

Only a perverse person would reject a godly, submissive, and gentle wife for someone who is glitzy, finely dressed, and as shallow as a wading pool. In the end, he is destined to drown in his own tears and sorrow. But a man who respects the beautiful, kind, and gentle wife of God is a man who will live in true happiness and contentment.

Heavenly Father, may we look to the pattern You have set for our marital relationships. Give us joy and contentment in the husband or wife of our youth and may we revel in the bond You established on the day we vowed our souls to one another in Your presence. Amen.

5 thoughts on “1 Peter 3:5

  • Tuesday, November 12th, 2019 at 9:29 am


  • Tuesday, November 12th, 2019 at 10:21 am

    Charlie I have to ask the question do these verses play a role in what we see today I.e. Muslium woman wearing bags and the early RCC nuns wearing for all Intent and purposes a burka with out the veil??? I find the similarity between the RCC and Islam fascinating ( and there are many) Of course few people realize that the RCC is 400 years older than Islam. And if you take the research further you will find that Islam was created by the RCC. It gets very deep here and is well worth the research time to see how Satan has guided this all along to bring us to this point. As far as the NWO and the OWR is concerned the Muslims are nothing more than tools and useful idiots to carry out their /Satans agenda for the world. Getting back on subject I remember as a kid, family friends had an 18 year old daughter that well I thought she was cool very cool. Then ond day we were at their house early in the morning sitting at the table whe this person came in and sat down with us. I looked at her and had no idea who it was and then she started to talk and I was like a deer in the headlights. What happened to their cool daughter? She turned into the bride of frankenstine. My whole concept of beauty was smashed and changed forever that day! Talk about getting a reality slap and at such a tender age lol. That was when I started appreciating woman with minimal make up and let their true beauty show through.i knew I wanted the real deal not a mask. Look at some of the YouTube make up videos. It’s mind blowing and frightening all at the same time. So kudos to the woman that minimize their make up and share the real deal with us…….not exactly sure why I shared this here but I am sure God has a reason…I just hope he shares it with me 🙂

    Prayers for Israel and the ongoing rocket attacks happening right now. It’s been a Long day there 🙁

    We ARE another day closer to home
    Grace mercy and peace on you and yours
    God bless my friends we fly soon

    • Wednesday, November 13th, 2019 at 1:13 pm

      Others have noticed the similarity between Islam and the RCC and how they cover women. I think it’s just a part of the human condition. There is either too much control, or there is not enough and things go completely haywire in the opposite direction. If people just stick to Scripture and not try to overdo it, things will work out much better for all.

      Hideko almost NEVER wears makeup, and yet she is a beauty in all ways to me.

  • Tuesday, November 12th, 2019 at 11:54 am

    BLESS GOD PRAISE JESUS! Spiritual eyes , not disguise, a loving heart not a lustful part or a tawdry tart, find your mate meet your fate , a person is not a toy and a loving woman fills with joy, all of this given by GOD , for girl and boy. The Deepest love from GOD above . Bless you all!


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