Romans 12

Wednesday, 20 November 2013

Be of the same mind toward one another. Do not set your mind on high things, but associate with the humble. Do not be wise in your own opinion. Romans 12:16

The first part of this verse has several possible interpretations. One is that we should empathize with one another. A second possibility is that believers should be agreed in their opinions about matters. A third possibility is that believers should seek the same thing for others that they seek for themselves. Based on the translator, one will inevitably get a different meaning. To “be of the same mind” is to show unity of mind regardless of the overall intent behind the words.

After that, Paul says that we shouldn’t set our minds on high things. The purpose of his words here are that we shouldn’t strive for what is considered of worldly importance. Seeking after wealth will only bring troubles (see 1 Timothy 6:10, for example). Looking to be around the famous is a dead end street as well. The majority of famous people live by the world’s standards and therefore our attention can only get misdirected from what is right and honorable. Further, when attempting to get into the presence of royalty or fame, we may find ourselves shamed in the process. This is well reflected in Proverbs 25:6, 7 –

“Do not exalt yourself in the presence of the king, And do not stand in the place of the great; For it is better that he say to you, ‘Come up here,’ Than that you should be put lower in the presence of the prince, Whom your eyes have seen.”

Instead of looking for fame and to the famous, Paul instructs us to “associate with the humble.” With humble people, there is no pretence, favoritism, or arrogance. Instead, there is the calm life of one who understands his position and acts without contempt for others. In the end, associating with such a person is far more pleasing and uplifting than the constant maneuvering of seeking high society.

The verse finishes with, “Do not be wise in your own opinion.” This fits nicely with the thought of Romans 12:3 which says one should not attempt “to think of himself more highly than he ought to think…” Whether it is regarding matters of faith, industry, innovation, strength, or some other ability, it was given by grace and it can end in a fleeting moment. Strong men will grow weak, invention will become passé, agility will cease with age, etc. As surely as strawberries are sweet, once we start acting wise in our own opinion we will be humbled. Rather than following this avenue, Solomon gives this advice in Proverbs 3:5-8 –

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart,
And lean not on your own understanding;
In all your ways acknowledge Him,
And He shall direct your paths.
Do not be wise in your own eyes;
Fear the Lord and depart from evil.
It will be health to your flesh,
And strength to your bones.”

In the end, acknowledging the Lord, acting humbly, associating with the humble, and having unity of mind with other believers is a far better approach. It will lead to a much fuller life and one which is destined for heavenly rewards as well.

Life application: Humility is something which is in short supply in our society, but it is a treasure which will pay heavenly rewards. When arrogance steps in, there is no room for exalting the Lord, so be humble and set your eyes on that which will be pleasing to your heavenly Father.

O gracious God, at times, I get the feeling that I’m pretty great stuff. But as soon as that kind of thought shows up, I remember that I’m not. I’m no better than others and I was saved by Your grace alone. Help me to act humbly, speak with meekness, and redirect lofty opinions of self to Your exaltation, not mine. May my life be one which glorifies You O God. Amen.

Tuesday, 19 November 2013

Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep. Romans 12:15

This admonition is straight-forward and something anyone can and should both grasp and participate in. Paul gives a life example of this same thought to the Corinthians in his first letter to them –

“And if one member suffers, all the members suffer with it; or if one member is honored, all the members rejoice with it.“1 Corinthians 12:26

Rejoicing with those who rejoice develops a bond of love simply because it shows that what makes them happy also makes us happy. We unite in a new way when we share such uplifting times. In the same way, when someone has tragedy, loss, or difficulty then showing empathy to their situation can only increase the bond between the two, though it may be delayed more than during times of joy. Grief often takes more time to process than joy because grief can completely overwhelm every other emotion and thought. This is why it’s so important to demonstrate empathy at these times.

Jesus gave us examples of both for us to emulate. When He gave the disciples authority and power as laborers in His ministry, we are told they came back “with joy” at the marvels which had occurred. Then this is noted, “In that hour Jesus rejoiced in the Spirit…” (Luke 10:21). In the same way, those who were at the tomb of Lazarus were in mourning. Jesus likewise mourned with them, showing empathy for their plight. In the account it says, “Jesus wept.” (John 11:35).

If the Lord can so fellowship with His people, then we can and should as well. Let us endeavor to participate in the joys and sorrows of those we are united to in the body.

Life application: Demonstrating empathy at sadness and showing joy at others’ victories and times of happiness can only build them up. Remember that at some point each one of us will have the same times of joy or sadness and we will hope for fellowship at those times too.

Heavenly Father, Jesus walked among us and rejoiced with those who rejoiced and He wept with those who were filled with grief. Please grant me a heart that has the ability to unite with others in this way. When they are mourning, I can help them through with tears of understanding. And when they are filled with joy, I can be there building them up in their bliss. Grant me this that the church will be edified in this way. Amen.

Monday, 18 November 2013

Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse. Romans 12:14

Paul goes to the words of Jesus today. In Luke 6:27, 28 we read this –

“But I say to you who hear: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.”

This may be one of the most difficult of all of Paul’s admonitions, but it is what we are asked to do. This is particularly so when we see that Jesus first spoke the words to us. To curse someone is, in essence, requesting their condemnation. But which one of us wasn’t first facing that fate (see John 3:18)? And yet we are pleased that God has shown mercy on us. Shouldn’t we likewise share the same feelings toward the lost?

These words, however, are often used as a pretext by those who would rip it out of its context to imply that we cannot call sin as sin. The implication then is that we are to bless any action by anyone without considering either the perverse nature of the individual or their action. Further, it is used as a tool against protecting oneself or taking any necessary action to guard against whatever harm may befall the believer. This is not the intent of these words. It is a clear and concise statement; we are to bless those who persecute us, not to curse them. This in no way implies that the Christian cannot at the same time use whatever means is available to secure themselves from others or to call out sin in the sinner.

Following the book of Acts, there are times where the apostles will do just these things. Throughout the epistles, we are given instructions into what is and isn’t acceptable behavior and even demonstrations of how to confront offenders. There is a balance which needs to be maintained and one cannot pursue this balance without being prepared through knowing the word and adhering to its precepts.

Life application: Though it is a difficult challenge, it is one prescribed to the believer – to bless and not to curse those who persecute us. God is the Avenger of His people and we need to make room for His wrath as we pray for those who come against us.

Heavenly Father, You’ve given me the difficult task of responding to those who persecute me with a blessing and not a curse. I sure need help with this one Lord. Grant me the patience in such trials, the ability to prevail over them, and the resolute determination to follow Your precepts. It’s tough Lord, but it has been directed by You, so it is attainable. Be with me in this challenge. Amen.